Brit Spears is an energy vampire. She takes and expects. She offers little. She comes first, the kids come last. It is a sad situation for them. She never had any boundaries and still doesn't understand having them. NO is not a word she is likely to ever accept from people. A lot of people in the media are like this. They are put on a pedestal, but they make horrible parents and mates. People are blinded by the fame and fortune.